5/29/12

Keeping It All Together


Composure.

Your average dictionary or anyone with common sense will define the word with something along the following: being able to handle yourself and your emotions in a harsh climate and or enviornment with a sense of cool ease. In my opinion, composure falls under the category of tollerance and patience alike. Just as it takes a considerably long time for some to keep their patience and tollerance up,  having one's composure in tact can take a while. While a lot of us who play Stardoll go under the rap for a harmless actions we've done or  because some of us become that dangling piece of  social meat for media vultures to go after, our composure tends to get rocked back and forth by accusations and slandering done on our behalf. 

So what do you do exactly when this happens?

Do you comment back to those whom are beating you down or do you calm down and say nothing at all? It's a fight or flight situation that is sometimes hard for us to deal with without losing our heads.
For some of us, it's easy to walk away and continue living our lives like before, yet for some of the more fiery attitudes whom get talked about, not saying anything and keeping a perfect composure is more difficult than putting a square peg in a round hole. When many are put to through this sort of thing, the moment becomes sour and turns basically into a test of fighting for validity and control of the situation. Not everyone can handle being criticised, especially when the criticism is meant to make them look like a dumb ass. Many don't realise that when they resort to anger in certain situations that they are just feeding into whomever is attacking them's main intention: to make you look more of a fool than what they are trying to already do.

There are a few things that I would like to ask anyone who has gone through this sort of thing, and I've even asked myself these things from time to time to make the situation out to what it really is : Do these people whom are criticising you know you? Did these people even think about your feelings? And most importantly, Are these people only doing this to ruin your composure and get a rise out of you?

Take some time and evaluate the situation with these three questions, you'll be glad you did. The truth is what the truth is ; we are all going to be put into the wrong kind of lime light from time to time. However, just because the situation is unfavorable for you doesn't mean that you have to react in an unpoised manner or say anything rude. Not saying a word or behaving politely towards them will burn them up more that you would believe. Besides, it's just their opinion, right? It can only affect you if you let it. Keeping yourself together is important! Why give anyone the pleasure of seeing you fall to their level?

5/27/12

What is this world coming to...?





well, my last post wasn't a success. I guess that's what you get when you make half attempts, wont do that anymore (sorry!). 

But back on topic, defying stardoll rules. Yes I know I always mention this, meaning it must be some sort of pet peeve of mine but DON'T DO IT! These same people that break little rules, thinking it's nothing major Stardoll will over look it cause I've bought megastar 3 years in a row and have 7099 starpoints. No. They wont. Depending on how bad the situation is, you may get your account deleted or a "warning".  

These same people that get their account deleted for minor rule, are likely to tell you about how loyal they are to Stardoll. Stardoll does not care I'm afraid, they do not say "I'll excuse her cause she won Ms Stardoll  World". They take the same precautions they take with everyone.

So when  I saw this, I just thought it was soo stupid. How smart of you to make Power Puff girl and Phineas and Ferb soft anime porn. How nice of you. By doing so, You have put your account at risk and anybody that buys them has also put their account at risk. So you enjoy your stupid shirt, Please anybody interested, pick one : 




Why not just make something original and Stardoll "legal"? I know its a shame to make this comparison but didn't Kasia do something like this with a boob showing dress or something? 

The post about the dress here

I think before I continue to ramble on about something so pathetic on my part, I should conclude my post. I know you may say something along the lines of " why do you even care? if you don't want one." I suppose I care because I think it's a waste of time. What's soo hard about making something appropriate for the site?

What do you think of the designs?
Is it yet again no big deal ?
wanna go congratulate the designer?

her suite link is here


I guess I'll just have to post about Audrey as no one is replying to the interviews. 


- Sask. 

5/26/12

Why.So.STUPID !!!!


My post title coming from the saying "Why, So Serious?" I believe it came from a batman film ( I don't know which one as I've never watched any). What exactly is the point of trolling on Stardoll! your range of  "naughty" words are limited as it is a young community based website. So you result to pointless things such as this:




Oh really, you were stabbed? What a shame. Tell Stardoll. I doubt anybody cares, I sure don't.

Do you do these things?
Do you care about them ?

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ps: does anybody want me to continue my family tree posts ?


-Sask.

5/25/12

Ideas of posting+ new banner needed.



Hey my Loves.:)

Yes, I know it's been a while since I've done my last post and I'm really sorry for that.
But the reason is, I have a lot to do  with school stuff and class tests.
I will try to write one post a week but for that I will need your help.
What themes are you interested in?
I thought of doing some Make- Up tutorials so would you be interested in them?
Also I need a new banner because I don't like the one I'm using at the moment that much..
Is there any talented graphic designer who would like to do me a favour in producing a new banner?
Please tell me all your thoughts in the comments so I can do posts that you'd like to read.

WE ONLY CAN GROW IF WE HELP EACH OTHER!



xoxo Anna

5/23/12

Stardoll's Hot News!: Did I mansion my new home?

''Stardoll's Hot News!: Did I mansion my new home?: A few weeks ago, the paps caught Stardoll's Mrs.Glamazon, Selena (Ruubin) leaving an estate agents office downtown, and now we all know why!...''



Read the new blog 'Stardoll's Hot News' made by of course, someone anonymous. Let's not judge for a minute and actually read! I was gagging and laughing at the same time! This is so damn cheesy, but I love it! Welcome back, Dynasty!

5/22/12

BACK ON: The Jist With Debbie



Sorry, for moving back and forth with segments.. I think the Jist is here to stay, so please bare with me. Lucky for everyone and myself, I just got a new microphone so I'll have no problem doing these.
video

Behind The Scenes: Reece Oliver


It's tough to describe Reece in a few words for it seems as though his characters is always changing, much like a chameleon. I knew he'd be tough to research on and talk about without insulting anybody, but I will give it a try! Bare with me!

He first called himself Destiny back in 2010, saying he was a girl. Reece was put in the spotlight for hacking Jack's account. After he was caught, Reece went to different members of Stardoll, harvesting  forgiveness. ''If you ask, it shall be given''.

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He sent Noelle a link to this picture, to convince her of his innocence. Unfortunately for Reece, Jack showed how the numerous problems with this picture. It was obviously Photoshopped because the name was cut off to show LadvGaoaMcoueen instead of LadyGagaMcQueen. In this way, much of Stardoll came to know Reece as a liar and hacker.

Reece also opened a nightclub, inviting Stardoll's finest to celebrate with him. Needless to say, next to no one attended.

Disheartened by the lack of a turn out, Reece copied Lolita's presentation, leading an irate Lolita to chastise Reece. Reece also proceeded to 'hack' Marcela, a prominent member of Stardoll. He then proceeded to steal her blog, Hot Buys Addicted.

Afterwards, Reece must have felt some remorse for his actions for he decided to leave Stardoll. Or maybe he just wanted some more attention!?! Selena and Jack wrote one of their 'What's Up?' segments on PSG based on Reece's leaving.
However, Reece lasted just one week away before returning. Around this time, he revealed who he was, thanks to Patrick's (devie44) questioning skills on Skype! Only this time he claimed to be 'Chad'.

He made a blog, The Stardoll Time, and hired Jack to write for it. He was probably hoping for some followers and to restart the whole fiasco, start fresh etc. Unfortunately for him, Jack posted about how lame the blog was and how he had no idea why he was there.


Reece had also kept nagging Selena for a position on BFM, and Selena allowed him to write a test post on his own blog, but immediately afterwards, Selena re considered and refused to allow him on the blog.

He also attempted to fool Dollywood by saying that "he" was really Destiny and Reece was "his/her" cousin.
Marcela also sold her line M by Marcela to Reece, apparently forgetting how he hacked her, or at least claimed to. Then it was revealed that Reece stole Marcela's blog and she had started a new one. Elle Rose also provided links showing that Reece has stolen her graphic.
Reece's graphic

Elle Rose's graphic

Finally, on the Fourth of July, Stardoll woke up to find Reece's account gone. Many suspected it was because he had hacked Marcela and she was a prominent Starblogger. Then he put his exclusive story onto BFM:
''I am leaving Stardoll because it is full of ignorant self-obsessed people who only care about their gain and other peoples losses. I had been thinking of leaving Stardoll for a while but on the 27th of July 2011 I logged onto stardoll and I was going through my blogger dashboard and came across a post made  by Stardolls biggest bitch Linda AKA Elite-girl (I really hate her, with PASSION) she made a snide remark about the shirts i made for Oslo for support! I did not think I was being greedy, and I did NOT try to make money from this traumatic event in history! I was selling them for 8 sd which i thought was reasonable when I first started selling them! She later told me I was disrespectful for doing this so i took the shirts down. This whole deal only triggered me more. I now really wanted to leave Stardoll.
A few months back Linda was broke so i gave her 100 sd. I thought she was telling me the truth about being broke, but she was lying. We had a major fall-out. So than she gets back at me as the usual bitch does, and she made the post about my 'RIP 92' shirts. (The post)

I am also leaving because I did bad things here, I got my fame for it. I got what i wanted and I have moved on that is my main reasons for leaving! 

I will miss people dearly! Thank you to; Patrick, Selena, Zenonas, Robyn, Ruby, Jason, Blake, Erica, Kristen, Linus, Eliza, Deidra and Sarah, you have made my time here on stardoll worth while and yes, I know I will be missed by the gossip blogs and all those people i listed above. 
Peace out Dollies!'' (Heavily edited by Selena, Reece's original quote was unreadable.)

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Reece released this photo of his arm, with this obviously fake scar on it.
 Everyone immediately scoffed at him, for going to this level to get attention is stooping much too low.

Another scandal that lowered Reece in the eyes of one of his great friends, Audrey was his attempted hacking of queen-of-mean's account.
excerpt of Audrey's post
Immediately the comments poured in about how low Reece had stooped.

But apparently that wasn't enough for him, and got caught with photos of a chat between him and someone else discussing whose account to hack and use that account to hack someone else so it wouldn't appear to be him. This brought angry crowds roaring in to BFM to complain.

But eventually, times must have changed and attitudes been adjusted because soon enough, Selena and Audrey announced that due to popular approval, Reece would be a BFM guest writer.

On November 8, 2011, Reece's account was discovered to have been deleted (again). Relieved and shocked citizens expressed their joy, but a few mentioned that Reece had actually deleted himself.

Little more than two days later, voila! It was announced that Reece was writing for PSG. Now, many doubted Reece had actually been deleted and probably just deleted himself to get attention (again). So, to teach Reece a lesson, Sofi and Linda pulled a well thought out plan.

They would fake a conversation in which Linda confessed to being pregnant. Then Sofi would send the conversation to Reece, who would of course post it on PSG. It was obviously all fake, and Reece ended up looking like a toddler writing for the big blogs and forgot to do his homework.

Then, as an early Christmas present, everyone woke up to find the great PSG...hacked.

conversation between Sofi and Jack
So, Dan made Reece administrator for something and Reece stole the whole blog. Of course, now the rumors began that Dan was Reece as well.

Around this time, multiple accounts began that were anonymous and claimed to know everything and be the next great blog.

This member appeared, with a MeDoll just like Reece. Many assumed it was Reece, but could it have been someone trying to frame him? Either way the account is long gone now, and there is no way of knowing...

This concludes my post about Reece AKA Destiny AKA Chad AKA Adrina AKA Patrissa!





5/21/12

I Could Use Some Help, Please.




Well, BFM is at a stand still, I'm sure everyone is trying to get resources for a post or two. I am too, but I had 3 sources and all 3 seem to be a little busy. I would love to finish my family tree before Selena boots off all of us Guest writers because we've added a fair amount of drafts. But I've been waiting for a while to finish my "Mommy" Installments. I know a lot of you disliked that title but in a family tree you start with the Father. I know this is 2012, and equality and all that is everything and no one really talks about family tree's and that but I saw it as a bit of humour so please don't take it personally. 

I have one more "Mommy" to do and that just so happens to be Audrey. She said she would have loved to do the interview but real life must have called as she's been away for a week (Come Back Quick Audrey!).

I then realised I cant wait forever and ever for her to get back, so I selected two random people from her best friends list. It's been 3 days and still no answer, So I'm here to ask you. 

Would you mind answering 5-6 questions about Audrey?
Could you do it Today or Tomorrow ?

and

Do you hope Audrey's coming back?


5/17/12

Graphic Designer NEEDED! (CLOSED)


So, most of you know that I have a Fashion line called 'House of De Ville' (Click HERE). 
The thing is that I have no graphic designer at the moment. My first one quit after making two graphics while my second one left Stardoll.

I need someone who will COMMIT to the job and spend time on the work they are getting paid to do!
I need someone with TALENT, drive and creative initiative!

I will pay you 50 Stardollars for every GOOD graphic you make for me. 
You will get two whole weeks to finish the graphic down to the last perfection!
You will also get to be creatively FREE! I want you to take initiative and make the sketch I give you come to life in a way that will please me and yourself! 

So are you up for the job? If so, leave this information about yourself in the comment section:
Name: 
Link to graphics (Or graphics blog) made by you to show your talent:

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Thank you for applying! I have now found my GD! :)

5/16/12

ELIZA MAD!!

You see that? Yes. It's a new offer, to convince others to spend all their moneyz on Stardoll. I recently, and by recently I mean a couple of days ago, purchased Superstar. A month to be exact. Do you know how long, according to Stardoll one month is? 28 fucking days. Sure, to be honest, it says "4 Weeks" when I'm going to invest, but that's a month, and last time I checked, this ain't no fucking Feb-ur-ee.
I am so mad to the extent, my spelling is failing so tragically at the moment!
I shouldn't be so mad about the offer, but... To top that off, a water bottle leaked and went EVERYWHERE in a WATER PROOF BAG! Any other decent bag, the water would drip though, but no... The water pooled up and caught inside the bag were my drawings and my phone charger! Now, if I want to buy that shitty dress, I have to spend even more money to recharge my second sim card!!

Last night, a friend wanted a hair I designed, so I thought that they were sell-able, like Jewelry Design was sell-able straight away. So here I go, out of my way to please a friend and bought a hairstyle for 13stardollars. To my surprise I was wrong... I could have smashed my laptop and then smashed it again!
Do they seriously want users giving out their password's because they want someone else's hair design?
Is it just me and my bad luck, or has Stardoll become very inconsiderate and inconvenient lately?

Comment below and abuse me for having a greasy box ;)
Toodlez my lovelizz
 xoxox

Oh, and that bitch who wrote a post about smoking... How 'bout you try it before you buy it.